Midlife is the best life Sep 14, 2022

 

 

I remember thinking that 40 was old.

 

Today I turned 52 and I don’t feel old at all. As a matter of fact, I feel like I’m just getting started and the best years are ahead of me! I have been reflecting on life and what changed my mind, and I thought today was a...

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Don't deny your feelings Sep 01, 2022
 

 

Don’t deny your feelings

  

If today had a color, it would be blue.

Not sure why… maybe it’s because I think my tears would be blue, or because it describes how I am feeling. Perhaps it’s because I am gazing across the lake right now of my summer...

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Something I am learning Aug 25, 2022

 

Something I am learning about myself,

 

I tend to avoid things I don’t want to face.

I distract myself by keeping busy, so I don’t have to face how I feel or make hard decisions.

Not on purpose, but because it’s how I learned to cope.

I know I am not alone in this.

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Dear God, am I doing this right? Aug 05, 2022

 

Dear God, am I doing this right?

 

Sometimes I wonder if I am doing a good job. Am I fulfilling the purpose you intended for me? In all my humanness, I wonder. Even the simple fact I don’t know if I should be writing to God or The Universe is a clear indicator that I am...

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Dear people pleaser, Aug 05, 2022

 

Dear people pleaser,

 

It’s not your job to make sure everyone else is happy.

It’s not your job to fix everyone’s problems.

You are not the entertainment committee, nor the event planner. (well maybe if that’s your career, but not otherwise)

You are not...

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